|Why good girls go for bad boys|
You must have seen many women only picking those guys which are painful for her. They do so deliberately and completely acknowledge that they are doing so. But they are unable to change their relationship. Their relationship detector quickly picks up only those guys from a whole large group, who are of their type. It is natural and many people confront this in their lives. The other guys may be treated as really boring or just nice for this type of women and are not treated to any extent.
The most important thing which set our relationship chooser is the relationships of our parents and our self esteem. We choose our relationships according to these two factors. Therefore, it means that having parents of such kind can also make their daughters select only those guys which are painful and damaging to them.
Therefore, first of all you are required to correct your own relationships if your daughter is facing some problems in choosing her relationships. You should look back at your parental methods and activities which were confronted by your daughter. There may be server misunderstanding between the parents and the child recognizes the father as a wrong entity. As a result, the daughter will always pick wrong and bad boys – may be to take revenge or any thing else.
You should also pay attention to your relationship history. May be you are a kind of person who loves getting hurt every time. May be you want only those friends who can hurt you in the most perfect manner. May be you don’t want good friends and have never kept one. There’s no doubt there are a number of people like that and they deliberately choose wrong relationships for themselves. You should acknowledge all those type of people and make a characteristics chart for them. This will allow you to have a good idea of bad people.
If you really want to change yourself and want to get rid of bad boys, then you should learn from your history of relationships. From learning the characteristics chart of bad boys, you can learn their welcoming style and living pattern. Therefore, if you find anyone in a bar or club, then you should try to avoid such type of bad boys. But this is very hard for such type of girls to do so as they are perfect and molded to this pattern of attaining bad boys for their lives.
Even then, there are some ways to quickly remove this bad habit for you. This habit of attaining bad boys not only kills yourself but also makes you fed up with your life and after sometimes – totally hypnotized. Therefore, you should be very careful while choosing your relationships.
There are a number of good girls who want only bad boys for their relationships. It is their nature and they cannot live without it. Many girls want to get hurt every time and many wants to just have a bad boy in their relationship. If you are one of those women and want to get rid of this bad habit, you should learn from your history.
by Elena Joy Enriquez
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