|Friends in our relationships|
No matter what sort of problem you have, you must go to your friend and share your problem with him or her expecting some nice idea or good solution for your problem. There’s no doubt friends can proved to be a really intelligent problem solver for your critical problems. It feels really good taking advises from your friends. But it also does not appear good if you stay whole of the time at your friend’s home asking him for advises of all types. Friends always keep the best interest of our heart and gives some really useful and practical ideas to over problems.
Sharing your relationship problems with your friend can be proved good but it is the only thing which your friend cannot give well advises about. The reason is that your friends think totally different way about relationships as you do. The person himself or herself is considered best in determining the relationships – especially of family. If you share a relationship problem with your friend, you may not get a very expecting feedback. This is because of the reason that your friend acts according to only what you have told him. He don’t know the understandings and misunderstandings of years that you have taken to make the relationship. These understandings and misunderstandings totally change the way now you interpret your relationship. Therefore, taking a picture of your relationship and putting it in front of your friend might give some useless idea. This is because of the fact that your friend only sees the picture and don’t behind it.
Learn your friend’s relationships:
If you go to your friend asking for some relationships problem, then you should first make yourself aware of the relationships of your friend. This is because of the reason that your friend will reply you according to his or her relationships level. If you interpret some type of people really bad, and unfortunately those are the relationships you want advise about, then your friend will definitely give some wrong perspectives. Therefore, you should first ask about the relationships of your friend before asking any advice for your relationships.
Don’t go to your friend every time:
It is a sort of foolish behavior to move to your friend if you are facing some children or money problems. You should keep your privacies to yourself and your family. Sharing it with your friends will make your friend feel ugly about you. Your friend will definitely become unable to reply you as he does not have any answer to your problem. Therefore, you should try to keep your private and family problems to yourself. Going to friend for asking relationship problems should be confined to a limited type of relationships only.
Friends play a very vital role in your relationships. They can give some really nice ideas and solutions to over relationship problems. They are very close and can experience your problem the best way. But before asking for any advice from your friend, you should acknowledge his relationships. Also, you should not go to your friend every time you face a money or children’s problem.
by Elena Joy Enriquez
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