|How to get back together in your relationship|
Relationship is something which can experience huge altitudes as well as deep depths. It depends upon the way you live. No matter you are a just a college friend or a married couple, relationships are always associated with a man and woman or a boy and a girl. It is easy to determine if you are in an emotionally depressed situation. Also you will be wondering to have some nice solution for it. What you may immediately do is to make him or her call. But sometimes it does not prove that much helpful and end up with a ruined relationship. According to psychology, you should do opposite to what you feel – and you will succeed. So, keeping yourself locked in a room while crying whole of the day will not solve the problem. Instead, you should make several acceptances and negotiations to make the relationship healthier and long lasting.
Accept your mistake:
The action will allow the girl to interpret his ex boyfriend as much wise and mature. You should definitely make genuine sorry. Fake sorry will not be carrying your relationship for a longer period of time. So, accept your mistake and admit that you mistakenly did it. Feeling shame will let her think even more about you. Also, give some time to the other party to think and deliberate. Don’t rush on him or her as it will not make deliberated decisions. If your ex accepts your sorry, you can be certain that still have a chance to continue your relationship.
Stay quiet for long term:
Though it’s not advisable but you should perform it with a great care. Don’t make any calls to your ex. She will definitely think that you are okay without her and you can really live without her. Don’t extend it more by going from front of your ex with a new girl. This can totally ruin up the situation. Just staying quiet will definitely make your ex think at every cost. Your ex will try to contact you at least once to determine about your future plans. May be you get a good conversation in such meeting or may be that all remains as before. But most probably there are chances for ex to remove so long distances culminating in a big ‘sorry’.
Plan for your Future:
No matter your ex has accepted your sorry or not, you can still talk to your ex about your future plans. That will be a healthy practice for both in the relationship. Planning about future will give you a good idea and understanding between your relationship and you will be able to live a more happy and affectionate life.
by Elena Joy Enriquez
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