|How to save a marriage when the spouse asks for divorce|
There’s no doubt situation can go weird and the spouse can become really rude. This is the time when your spouse may ask for divorce. The other spouse can be in any stage of the relationship. The spouse can also immediately divorce or can completely refuse to divorce as it was only a misconception. Indeed saving a marriage when your spouse asks for divorce is not a very easy task and you just cannot achieve it that simply. Sometimes it requires a lot of hard work and patience. Even after that, many unlucky pairs lose their long lasted relationship. Getting divorce does not only have fierce effect on the children, but it also ruins the personal lives of the couple. Therefore, if you face any such situation, there are steps you should do to save your lovely marriage.
Immediately argue her:
If you have got caught by your wife, you should argue with her that it was not the situation. Lying in such critical circumstances is advisable – it is said by some scholar. But that does not mean that you just live your life the way you want and eventually end up with a ‘sorry’. This will harm your relationship and can end up in some real big trouble. So what you should immediately do is to argue her and tell her that these are not the valid reasons for the divorce.
Accept and Apologize:
When you see your wife has no other way than divorce and she is all serious in it, you should seriously apologize her for your mistake. Promise to change yourself and ensure her your affection and love. You should be open and genuine in this all – because false and fake promising will not work for a longer term.
Beg her and go for negotiations:
Eventually if your wife wants divorce from you, you should beg her and get into her knees. Try to sorry her at all possible levels. Have all sort of negotiations that can be made. Make some sort of short or long term commitment which can allow you to live under observance and closeness. In the mean time you should keep on uttering the word ‘sorry’. But don’t get rude.
Leave everything and you will get angry:
It’s natural that when a person feds up from some constant headache or critical condition, he gets himself or herself turned off and eventually get up angry. This anger should be in a controlled amount and you should never go weird with your wife.
True martial advisers never advise you to give your wife divorce. Without paying big sum of fees of marital advisers, you should try to negotiate and commit among yourself. This will prove to be the most trustful commitment which if properly handled, can lead up to a totally new and lovely life.
by Elena Joy Enriquez
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